In the last decade we have seen a rise of social media. Within this landscape of online services Facebook plays an immense role in facilitating and creating bonds bewteen people. In this paper we enter a qualitative study conducted with a small group of adult Facebookers over 58. We do so in an effort to understand waht kind of relationships one can have through this digital media. The theortical lens used is Phenomenology, which we find fruitful for more carefully looking into relationship between humans and technology.