This chapter studies the interplay between remembering and forgetting in post-war contexts. Since memory has spatial dimensions and can be stimulated by visual clues, it is clear that memorials may play a highly important role within such processes. Fieldwork carried out in Mostar, Bosnia Herzegovina, and on the Kosovo Field between 2015 and 2016, in the aftermath of the ethno-religious wars that touched both these regions during the 1990s, helps to illuminate the negotiation. On the basis of the fieldwork carried out, this chapter aims to challenge routinely made assumptions about positive and negative valuations of remembering and forgetting.